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The Indigenous Lepcha Tribal association kolkata branch had a meeting yesterday(08.11.09) in my residence here in Kolkata to discuss over the issue of one Lepcha lady who was married to a Chinese here in Kolkata.She was widowed 20 years back with one son who is 30 years old today. The issue lies in the fact that her husband's family had mistreated her for a long time and she being a lepcha lady whose TAAMZUK (respect) was at stake, never went to her Lepcha family (In Manigombu, Kalimpong) for help. Recently the matter had gone out of hands as she was ousted from her home by her late husband's brother and sister.
Way back in 1994 when she already was a widow, seeing her plight her bro-in-law from Hongkong had bought her a lady's beauty parlor so that she could earn a livelihood. She was also a favoured daughter-in-law of her mother-in-law who too was a Lepcha married to a chinese man. She took care of her late husband's family with the earning from the parlor. She even recruited a Lepcha beautician from Dzongu named Saharmith.Saharmith and this aneu made a good earnings from the parlor and could support the entire family. But things took an ugly turn when her sis-in-law married to a Nepali from Kathmandu intervened. The parlor earnings became a major bone of contention whenever she came down from Kathmandu to claim her share. In fact the simple Lepcha lady never made an issue while sharing the earnings with this already married sis-in-law. So humble was she that she even took all the abusings of this wicked sis-in-law with silence and never complained.This had been going on for sometime when Aneu decided to buy herself a bigger flat with the earnings. The wicked sis-in-law from Kathmandu saw a conspiracy in this move to ouster her from her share of earnings and launched a violent opposition to the buying of the flat. Here even the innocent Saharmith was blamed for instigating aneu to buy the flat. The sis-in-law immediately called a meeting with her brother who was still in Hongkong and schemed to remove Saharmith from the parlor who she claimed was the strength behind the Aneu's bolder moves. The stupid Hong Kong Bro-in-law too saw this as a conspiracy against his remaining siblings. So convinced was he by his sister (from kathamndu) that he fired Saharmith from the parlor and made her homeless in Kolkata with mere Rs.1600 in hand. In order to clip the alleged wings of this old aneu he even made a new partnership agreement (aneu was the sole owner before) whereby he retained a greater partnership in the Parlor earnings.All this went without any complaint by the Lepcha aneu.
But recently this Hongkong Bro-in-law returned and started getting more influenced by his sibling's complaints against aneu that first he threw his own nephew out from the home and then to make matters worse he threw out his aged Lepcha sis-in-law who had always worked for the better of this cruel chinese family. He with his cruel sister managed to seize all the savings aneu had before having her thrown out.
This is where i stepped in. Since they did not have any home to put up in i took them in and kept them at my place for 2 weeks after which Saharmith (now a successful beautician with another partner) found a rented place for them and started supporting mother son duo financially.
We brought this issue to the notice of the Kolkata Shejum who was gathered here in full force sans the always irregular president. The shejum seeing the plight of this old Lepcha lady and her son have decided to take up her issue with full participation and conviction.
Well i guess this is where the Kolkata shejum really express their conviction to work for the Lepchas......hello other Shejums of different parts of the world..there is a lesson to be learnt here....